How to introduce a rescue to your family
We all know how exciting it is to welcome a new family member into your home. But we also know how easily things can go wrong when introductions are rushed.
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Too often, rescue animals are brought back simply because they weren’t given enough time to settle in or to get to know their new fur siblings properly. It breaks our hearts at TEARS Animal Rescue — and it’s why we’re so passionate about helping adopters get this step right.
Bringing a rescue animal home is pure magic. You’ve found your fur-ever friend and they've found their forever home. Your heart is full, they're over the moon, and you just know they’ll fit right in. But here’s the catch: while you’re picturing happy cuddle piles and instant besties, your pets are thinking, “Who’s this stranger in my space?”
The thing is, introductions don’t happen in a day. Most rescues come from challenging backgrounds that make it hard for them to just relax and become one of the gang. Plus, even the most chilled resident pets need time to adjust. It can take weeks and even months before everyone feels safe, settled, and ready to share the couch. Think of it as a slow dance, rather than a speed dating session (because we all know how those end up).
Here’s how to make those first steps smooth and stress-free:
Before you commit to adopting an animal, quiz the team at the shelter about your potential rescue’s history and personality. Have they lived with other pets? How do they behave around cats, dogs or children? Are they easily frightened by loud noises, like thunder or shouting? This information will help you make an informed decision about whether or not they’ll be a good match for your particular environment. It also means you’re able to set realistic expectations at home.
Once home, your new arrival needs a space to call their own — a spare room, special bed, or a comfy nook. They need to know that this is theirs alone. Likewise, your current pets should also have their own spots to retreat to when they need some quiet time. This way, nobody feels crowded and everyone can get on with life. It will take some gentle guidance in the beginning, but with a little patience they’ll soon learn the ropes.
Dogs are usually more relaxed when meeting on a walk, where there’s less “this is my space” tension. With cats, try using a cracked door or small barrier (like a baby gate), so they can check each other out from a safe distance. Once both seem calm, move the meet-up into a neutral spot indoors. Keep some tasty treats nearby to make the experience positive and watch their body language closely so you can step in before things get heated.
Those early get-togethers should be calm, brief, and always supervised. Leashes and barriers are great tools at this stage. Don’t worry if they’re not instant best friends — simply being in the same space without drama is progress. As your rescue starts to relax, slowly stretch out the time and freedom they have together. Every pet has their own pace, so go slow and celebrate even the smallest wins.
Side-by-side walks (with a bit of space) or feeding pets in separate areas where they can still see each other can go a long way to building positive associations. Soon enough, they’ll start linking “new friend” with “good things happen.” This kind of gentle reinforcement builds confidence and trust.
Make a point of rewarding calm behaviour as often as possible. A wagging tail, a polite sniff, or even peacefully ignoring one another is worth a treat and enthusiastic “Good boy!” or “Good girl!” Snacks obviously work well, but rewards can also come in the form of praise, affection, or a good play session. The point is to notice and celebrate small steps forward, so your pets feel safe and supported.
Animals are always communicating through their body language. Watch for stress signals like stiff posture, pinned ears, low growling, or intense staring. When you notice any of these, pause the interaction and try again later. Respecting their signals is one of the best ways to not only keep everyone safe but build trust.
8. Patience, Patience, Patience
Patience is key. Resist the temptation to hurry the process and don't worry if you feel things are moving too slowly. Like their human counterparts, animals need time to get comfortable and build trust. There may be a few setbacks along the way, but keeping a calm, consistent routine will help everyone adjust.
9. Don’t Leave Them Alone (Yet)
Until you’re sure they’re best buds, keep them separated when you’re not around. Once your new rescue can interact calmly with your current pets, then you can think about leaving them unsupervised for short periods. Start small and gradually increase the time as they get used to it. Celebrate every milestone and reinforce positive interactions with treats, praise, and playtime.
Struggling? Reach out to TEARS Animal Rescue or a qualified trainer for guidance. Sometimes a little expert advice is all it takes to smooth out the issues. They can provide tailored strategies to help your pets feel more at ease and build stronger bonds. With their support, you can overcome any challenges. Remember, patience and positivity are key.
Inviting a rescue animal into your home is a truly rewarding experience, but it's not without its challenges. Knowing this upfront and having the right tools at hand to deal with issues as they arise will make all the difference. Remember, patience and love are the answer to almost any situation. With enough of both, all your fur friends and you will be snuggling together on the couch in no time.
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ABOUT TEARS ANIMAL RESCUE:
TEARS is a pro-life, non-profit organisation established in 1999 (registered in terms of Section 18A of the Income Tax Act) whose core aim is to rescue, treat, rehabilitate, reunite, and rehome lost, abandoned, abused, and neglected companion animals and to educate pet owners and the youth living in the four under-resourced communities within which we operate.
We strive to meet the needs of the under-resourced communities in the Southern Peninsula by providing:
● free sterilisations and subsidised medical support that includes vaccinations, deworming, and parasite control
● access to two TEARS mobile clinics that offer primary healthcare and pet care support.
● Access to the TEARS Veterinary Clinic, offering veterinary care for vulnerable pets for almost any condition, illness, or injury at a welfare rate.
TEARS remains the only facility in the Cape Peninsula’s far South available seven days per week, including an after-hours mobile clinic service from 4.30pm to 7pm with limited veterinary care. TEARS treat the hundreds of animals who need treatment each month for various conditions, illnesses, and injuries.
Our experience enables us to manage the population control of companion animals in these areas, based on available funding, and to reduce the spread of zoonoses as a means of supporting community health and complying to the WHO’s One Health approach to the animal-human interface.
We are partnered with community-based NGOs and community leaders to support vulnerable pets and pet owners living in the four core communities we are mandated to serve. Our Programmes aim to bring about systemic change through strategic interventions based on community involvement and support. Implementing effective animal welfare solutions in high-density and low-income communities has been proven to positively impact human welfare by delivering health, environmental, economic, educational, and social benefits.
